My One Word for 2018

/ February 22, 2018/ goals, self-discovery/ 0 comments

Last year, my word for the year was strive. I felt it was a great word since I had a lot of changes in my life and it was a kind word which gave allowances if I backslid or did not succeed at something. Even now I still use this as a reminder to be kind to myself. Credit But

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My One Word for 2017

/ January 18, 2017/ goals, self-discovery/ 4 comments

The Lurkdom knows how much I’m anti-resolution and am more about goals. Being a new mom hasn’t changed this, if anything I’m more pro-goal than before. Historically, I always fall short on what I want to achieve. That’s why this year, I’m working a new angle. A lot of people are already on board the one word for the year

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Patience is Key

/ January 4, 2016/ goals, self-discovery, word/ 1 comments

Welcome to 2016! If you know me, you know me and resolutions aren’t really friends. Probably because I don’t know how to make realistic or effective resolutions. They are always like “drop three pants sizes” or “publish all the things” which is great, if I actually took circumstance into account when I make them. This is why I’m changing the

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Know Yourself for Better Efficiency

/ February 5, 2014/ advice, anxiety, goals, my non-professional opinion, self-discovery, Task-Setting for Writers, tips/ 0 comments

For the last month, I’ve been slogging through first round revisions for my self-dubbed “light and fun” YA contemporary, and it’s been hell. The revision process has been so bad I recently had a weekend-long panic attack. While I’m known to tweet/FB things like “Revisions. Grrr…,” I’m not opposed to the process. It’s an accepted fact of the writer life.

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Something to Resolve

/ January 10, 2012/ goals, life, self-discovery/ 7 comments

If you’ve lurked here long enough, you would know that I’m not big on the resolution thing. You’d also know that I kinda sorta suck at the goal thing. This happens because I usually aim too high* and then get discouraged and kick the whole process out the door. (There’s a reason why the New Year’s resolution to stop resolving

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